I gave birth to a baby boy .who is everyone’s heart beat,as we the new parents were out of the world after seeing him.but suddenly doctors said he needs oxygen n our bad luck oxygen was not available in that hospital…as a mother I was unaware of such things,then doctor came n said his head size is so small ,n he will do everything in his life but late.thats it ..I as a mother was very happy with my child.as he my “aankho ka Tara”I cared him a lot which every mother do..day across by my child doesn’t sleep in nights,that time it seems ok that many children’s do…after 1 month I observed how he is looking ,I mean he is my child no doubt he is worlds beautiful child for me but still…he is looking lil different but I was unaware of his problem…cz I don’t know his actual prob “cz maa ko sab ni pata”2 years passed .once he was very ill n we went to the hospital n we was wating for the doctor I generally asked 1 nurse what doctors write in my child prescription DS?what is it? Then that day she told your child has a Down syndrome .i was shocked ???? as a mother just imagine what the HELL situation it could be…????this word has totally disappoint me n shocked me ????but I was a strong mother I accept him Take him as my life biggest challenge n after coming home googled everything about DOWN Syndrome n read everything. it buried me everyday but I hold myself to fight with it…then days passes n we came to know about the therapies which work with these kids ,I joined him there n did my core hard work with full enthusiasm..it was like my task .in between he was gone through with many tough phases like his heart surgeries n all n all I accept with a blossom flowers of GOd n only fight fight n fight with all circumstances n I won????doctors said that DS children will not cope up so easily with the surgeryn all as they have weak immune system n they have high risk infection factors but I was a challenging mother I cared him madly n he was all well in 3 months n no infection touched him????though I have faced lots of fights with my family regarding my son precautions but I don’t care them in front of him…because for me his life is in my hand …n then gradually therapies are working n with the talented teachers I also worked very hard n once the child who was called a most hyper child ,who can’t sit for a second ,
The most arrogant,who hits,who throws things,who don’t know who are there parents,who don’t stop running,who don’t know any single thing,who don’t speak ,who don’t walk till 2 ,who don’t sleep till he gets 3 n many more….is now just opposite of above …..to whom doctors said “hopeless “is now studying in reputed school….from that day till this date this boy has come to near normal child n still working my core best to make him “THE BEST”.Down syndrome is not a curse.its just a more hardwork..to become them “NORMAL”…not every mother knows what is gonna be happen …like me????never give up????anything could be possible in this world ????
To be continued..,..
Down syndrome is not a curse …!it’s just a Acceptance..