Hi I’m sweety I’m from a middle class family I am a nurse. A year ago I got married and it was an arrange marriage everything was good. But after marriage I came to know the reality that his mother controls the money .it’s only him and his mother left in the family his brother and father expired. I was still ok with it. But I came to an extent that even for little things I had to ask from my mil.so i resumed my job but my husband expect me to give all my salary to his mother. Because he thinks I cannot handle my own money which eventually I had to do because if I dont they both would shout at me and threaten to leave me if I dont follow their rules. One day I stood up for my self and even I raised my voice. He hit me because I spoke rudely to his mother. I left that home. After some days our family’s talked he promised that he would not do it again . I thought he would change but he didn’t. Instead he started hurting me with his words. He will speak what ever he want and says sorry. This has been going on for a year. Recently I had an argument with my mil regarding my job. He said that I’m nothing compared to his mother and I dont even the right to take her name. I stopped talking to everyone. And my mil started saying that all the bad things I kept quiet. But my husband threatened me that if I won’t speak to his mother he will sent me back to my parents home. That’s where I lost it and stood up for my self and left the house. Should I go back did I do a mistake?