The person I thought I would spend the rest of my life with, has left me with so many scars. So much pain! Just recently I found out that the person I married was not a male, he/ she was born as a female. I’ve never felt so betrayed in my life. My relationship with my children has changed completely, its like they disowned me as their mother. I’ve never felt so broken, I feel so lost. At times I dont even know who I am anymore. I wake up crying every morning and go to sleep crying every night. “He/She” .. acts and walks around like its no big deal. How can someone keep a secret from their spouse like that.