Dedication: My mother and women like my mother.
Hey everyone thank you for sparing time to read my story. If I could inspire anyone with my story I’ll be highly obliged.
My story starts when I was 9 years old. I had a happy family my mom, my dad, grandparents all in all it was all good until when my mother delivered my brother on 7th October 2009. My dad didn’t wanted a second child and also I had a background where girls are preferred less than boys. So when my brother was born my paternal family was not happy because they didn’t wanted second child because of some financial issues because of which my dad accused my mom that it was not his child and doubted her that saying that he wanted a DNA test to prove it was his child. So my mother was devastated after this because any women would be its natural but then too she stood up proved him and things went on. Now let’s move when I became 10 years old by this time my father became a ruthless person who can get irritated by anything. He literally stopped giving money to my mom and used to ask her that he had no money to buy food manage in whatever way she want to. My mom used to literally beg my father for money so that she could get food for my brother and me. I was a growing kid and by this time I started understanding things my father used to do to my mother. I used to be that quite kid in school who is under confident and not had many friends hardly 1 or 2. So things went on and my father as usual used to doubt her in every single way whether it be going out, getting ready everything and he used to fight with her on small topics like less salt in food etc. My mother kept her calm she used to ask me to not to be like this help others, be good, be soft hearted. Just imagine sleeping to the voice of your mother crying and your father doubting her and saying nasty stuff to her. And Finally that day arrived when my father verbally abused my mother over something and that day she called her brother to help her and get her out of it. She was scared to be with anymore and tolerate fights and humiliation from my father as well as my grandparents. It took her 4 years to take the decision of ending her marriage with that man. My maternal family helped us in every aspects Financially, emotionally, mentally every way possible and its been 8-9 years now that we are away from that man and that atmosphere. I am college student and aspiring engineer who has one goal in life to get my mother a home, a life that she deserve and my brother a good education.
I want to say that there is a lot of negativity in our surrounding but always be there for your loved ones. Your little support can make someone’s life better. And also do not support domestic issues stand up for good and stand against bad and everything will go with the flow.